Elopement wedding dresses – how to pick one that’s perfect for you
When it comes to elopements, everything is a little more relaxed, a little more you. You’re choosing to focus on the connection and adventure, rather than sticking to tradition. And that includes finding the perfect wedding dress. But what makes an elopement wedding dress different from a traditional one? And how do you pick one that’s just right for your unique day? In this post, I’m diving into elopement wedding dresses – how to pick one that’s perfect for you, so you can look and feel incredible, no matter where your adventure takes you.
What makes an elopement wedding dress different?
Elopement weddings are all about intimacy, spontaneity, and adventure, so it’s no surprise that elopement wedding dresses are a bit different from traditional bridal dresses. When you’re choosing a dress for an elopement, you want something that suits your vibe, is easy to move around in, and looks stunning against a natural backdrop.
Think flowy silhouettes, lightweight fabrics, and designs that are both beautiful and practical. Whether you’re planning to hike up a mountain, exchange vows in a dramatic coastal location, or say “I do” barefoot on the beach – your dress should be able to keep up with you.
But picking the right one isn’t just about finding a dress that looks good – it’s about choosing something that makes you feel amazing. Here’s how to find the perfect fit for your elopement day.
How to pick the perfect elopement wedding dress
When it comes to elopement wedding dresses (and how to pick one that’s perfect for you), there are a few key factors to keep in mind: the location, your style, comfort, and movement. Let’s break it down step-by-step:
Consider your elopement location
Your dress should not only reflect your personal style but also suit your elopement location. Different settings will call for different types of dresses:
Mountain or forest elopement: If you’re getting married on a rugged trail or in the woods, choose a dress that’s easy to move in and won’t snag easily. Think lightweight fabrics like chiffon or silk, and consider a shorter train or no train at all to avoid getting tangled in the underbrush.
Beach or coastal elopement: For beach or coastal elopements, opt for a breezy, flowy dress that will look stunning in the wind. Go for a dress that’s ankle-length or above to keep it from dragging in the sand, and consider breathable fabrics like organza or lace to stay cool.
Waterfall elopement: If your elopement spot is dramatic and wild, go for a dress that flows beautifully in the wind. Capes, long sleeves, and intricate lace details can add a touch of romance and drama against the stunning backdrop.
Think about comfort and movement
Elopements are more laid-back and often involve exploring your surroundings. So, when thinking about elopement wedding dresses and how to pick one that’s perfect for you, comfort and mobility are crucial. Choose a dress that allows you to walk, sit, and move comfortably.
Look for dresses that aren’t too tight around the waist or hips, and consider the weight of the fabric. If you’re planning to hike or walk a lot, a lightweight dress that won’t weigh you down is ideal. Make sure to try sitting, kneeling, and walking around in it when you try it on – your dress should move with you, not restrict you.
Stay true to your personal style
Elopements are a chance to break away from tradition and embrace what truly feels like you. If you’re usually more comfortable in simple, minimal styles, then a big, elaborate gown might feel out of place. On the other hand, if you’ve always dreamed of wearing a fairytale dress, don’t feel like you have to tone it down just because you’re eloping!
Whether you love bohemian designs, elegant lace, sleek modern cuts, or something totally unique, your elopement dress should reflect your personality. Remember, there are no rules – this is your day, and your dress should make you feel your best.
Consider the weather
Weather can change everything when it comes to elopements. If you’re eloping somewhere chilly or high-altitude, consider a long-sleeved dress or add layers like a shawl or bridal jacket. For warmer climates, opt for breathable, lightweight fabrics that won’t leave you sweating through your ceremony.
Don’t forget to check the forecast for wind as well – flowy dresses look amazing in photos, but if it’s a particularly windy day, you’ll want to make sure your dress won’t be blowing around too much!
Accessories: keep it simple and practical
For elopements, it’s often best to keep accessories simple. Consider ditching the cathedral-length veil for something more practical, like a flower crown, a shorter veil, or even a hat if you’re feeling adventurous.
If you’ll be doing any hiking or walking, swap out traditional heels for bridal boots, sandals, or even barefoot shoes for beach ceremonies. And don’t forget to bring along a shawl, wrap, or cosy jacket if you’re eloping somewhere cool!
Types of elopement wedding dresses to consider
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to elopement wedding dresses. Here are a few styles to inspire you:
The bohemian dress: soft lace, flowy sleeves, and a relaxed fit. Perfect for a carefree, romantic vibe.
The minimalist dress: simple silhouettes, clean lines, and understated elegance. Ideal for modern brides who want something sleek and chic.
The tea-length dress: a shorter style that’s perfect for showing off your shoes and moving freely. Great for casual elopements.
The ethereal dress: layers of tulle, delicate embroidery, and dreamy fabrics. Best for whimsical brides looking for a fairytale feel.
The adventure-ready dress: easy to pack, lightweight, and fuss-free. Perfect for hiking or traveling to remote elopement locations.
Final thoughts on elopement wedding dresses – how to pick one that’s perfect for you
Choosing an elopement wedding dress is all about finding a style that suits your adventure, feels comfortable, and most importantly, makes you feel like the beautiful bride you are. Think about your location, your personal style, and what will help you fully enjoy every moment of your special day.
Remember, your dress should be an extension of YOU – whether it’s a boho lace gown, a minimalist slip dress, or a dramatic statement piece, what matters most is that it makes you feel incredible. With the right dress, you’ll be able to embrace your elopement day, rain or shine, wind or sun, and feel confident, free, and perfectly you.
Ready to find your dream elopement dress? Get in touch – I’m happy to share more tips on making your elopement day as perfect as can be!
Where to shop elopement wedding dresses
Needle & Thread London – romantic designs for brides who want ultimate elegance and individuality. Embellished wedding dresses, embroidered bridal gowns, dotted bridal skirts and more.
Monsoon – modern intricate details, beautifully-crafted pieces.
Wilderly Bride – soft lacework alongside textural details and unique statement sleeves.
E & W Couture – sparkle, lace, simplicity & unicorns
Lucy Can’t Dance – quirky wedding dresses for non-traditional brides. Alternative, boho, vintage, festival, splashes of colour, beautiful lace, amazing backs, buttons and intricate details.
Rolling in Roses – sustainable wedding dresses for the fashion-forward bride looking for a cool, comfortable alternative to the norm.
Belle & Bunty – contemporary silhouettes, feminine details and luxurious fabrics to create dresses for the modern bride wanting something paired back, very elegant and just a bit cool.
Stillwhite.com – preloved dresses
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