How to plan a dreamy, slightly wild & meaningful elopement in Wales
Hey there!
I’m an elopement photographer & planner based in glorious Wales and for the last 6 years, I’ve been offering couples an alternative way to get married and have the wedding day of their dreams here in glorious Wales.
Not entirely sure what an elopement actually is? Start here: What is an elopement and is eloping in Wales for me?
You’ve likely stumbled upon this page because you’ve been Googling all things elopement, and you’ve probably reached a point where you’re thinking about ditching the traditional wedding script. Instead, you’re dreaming of doing something a bit more adventurous and personal for your big day and need the best tips on how to make your elopement in Wales as magical and unforgettable as possible.
Happy to help!
I’ve photographed nearly 100 elopements and micro weddings and have put together this basic elopement guide to share some of the tips and tricks I’ve picked up along the way. If you’re dreaming of planning the perfect elopement here in Eryri (aka Snowdonia), this guide will give you a quick rundown of all the key things you need to know to make it happen.
Maybe you’re a couple who’s all about keeping things easy and laid-back, dreaming of a chilled-out wedding in Wales that’s all about the two of you. No stress, just pure excitement as you tie the knot, and a mini adventure thrown in for good measure. You want a small, incredibly meaningful day that’s packed with romance, surrounded by absolutely stunning scenery.
Sound like an absolute dream?
If you end up feeling a bit like ‘oh yeah, this is definitely so us’ when you’ve finished reading through this guide on how to elope in Wales and you’d like some help & epic photographs from your wedding day – happy to have a super chill chat with you to talk you through your options.
All of your elopement questions answered so let’s start with the basics – what exactly is the difference between a traditional wedding and an elopement?
Traditional Wedding
Involves meticulous planning, often followed by a small & intimate or large & elaborate reception, usually with family and friends, sometimes with +1’s you’ve never met and sometimes with people you haven’t seen or spoken to in years.
Can involve spending a considerable amount of time planning & doing research for the right wedding venue & often tedious admin tasks (think guest list, tricky catering decisions – you get the just). It can be a lengthy process, often taking several months to a year of preparation.
Typically means inviting a range of guests, from close family and friends to extended relatives, colleagues, and acquaintances, and quite often friends & acquaintances of your family members that don’t really mean so much to you.
Often takes place in a traditional venue like a church, register office, or a licensed event location – additional costs.
The average UK wedding now costs £19,000 (excluding rings & honeymoon).
Family is often involved in the planning process and the event itself. Family expectations can play a significant role and not always in a good way, especially if there is tension in the family which can make things a tad awkward.
Elopement
No longer about secrecy (although some couples do elope in secret), but often without the knowledge of family and friends outside your closest circle which can make it kinda exciting! Eloping is more about the couple and less about the spectacle, and a simple but beautiful and intentional ceremony often followed by an adventure in the wild for epic wedding day photographs.
Easy planning. The focus is on you getting married rather than pleasing others. Elopements can be planned petty quickly, sometimes in just a few days or weeks – you only need 29 days to give notice so theoretically you could easily plan your elopement in Wales in just over a month.
Usually just the couple, and your 2 legal witnesses. It’s a much more private affair but close family members & friends are more than welcome to be there for your ceremony.
Only in registry offices and licensed ceremony-only locations. Many couples decide to have a very basic legal ceremony followed by exchanging personal vows and rings in a remote and scenic location in Wales.
Typically much less expensive due to the simplicity and lack of a large event with most couples spending the majority of their budget on exceptionally stunning and/or romantic accommodation and elopement photography and videography.
Is more couple-centric, with less emphasis on meeting family expectations or traditions and more emphasis on getting married in a way that feels right to the couple and their expectations and dreams.
Is an elopement for you?
Big, traditional weddings aren’t for everyone, and that’s totally okay. Wedding planning can get a little overwhelming with all the stress (and let’s not forget the cost), BUT here’s the good news: when it comes to eloping, there are no rules! You can make your day totally your own, and the possibilities are endless.
Maybe you want a romantic weekend getaway, just the two of you, relaxing in a cosy log cabin in Wales. Or maybe you’d only like to bring a couple of your closest friends or family as your witnesses. You could even split the day up: spend the morning with a small group of family/friends for your legal ceremony at a registry office or a beautiful licensed venue like Penarth Fawr, and then take the afternoon to do exactly what you really want. Celebrate with some champagne and cake after the ceremony, but don’t feel like you have to spend the whole day with anyone else! Let them head home, and you and your partner can set off on a stunning adventure. End the day with a romantic dinner under the stars – campfire optional (and only where it’s allowed, of course!). Why not? There are so many ways to get married nowadays, and if a big, traditional wedding isn’t your thing, eloping might be the perfect fit!
Eloping in Wales is such an amazing alternative to the whole big white wedding thing. And while European spots like Iceland or wedding destinations like Scotland or the Lake District sound dreamy, they might feel like a bit of a trek. The great thing about Wales is that it’s super easy to get to – just over 4 hours from London – and it’s a small, friendly country with absolutely stunning landscapes. And if you still want to celebrate with family and friends, do it later! Invite everyone to your favorite pub or restaurant, share your gorgeous elopement photos, and relive all the special moments. Trust me, they’ll love it!
What are the legal requirements for an elopement in Wales?
The obvious one first; to legally elope in Wales, you need to actually get legally married in a licensed venue or register office first. Hop on over to the Government’s page on approved premises for civil marriages and civil partnerships in England and Wales (bit boring but helpful) to find one that works for you. For those of you looking to get married quite quickly – go & take a look at my post on how to plan a simple wedding quickly which may save you a lot of time (you’re welcome :)).
You can legally elope in a beautiful ceremony-only venue or a local registry office (spoiler alert: it’s a total myth that registry office ceremonies are less meaningful or romantic than those at beautiful venues because let’s face it – all that matters is how it FEELS and not what it looks like). Getting married at a registry office in Wales can turn out a lot more intimate than you’d think and it’s a really easy way to cut costs, just take a look at this relaxed registry office adventure wedding in Wales.
Once you’ve agreed on the ceremony venue or register office that works best for you, you’ll have to do the following:
Give notice – which means you have to complete and sign a legal declaration stating your intent to marry, this needs to be done at least 29 days before your wedding day and involves a fee that can range from £35 – £55 depending on where you get married;
Bring a valid passport, UK birth certificate, or national identity card if you are from the EU, EEA, or Switzerland; if you are not a UK citizen but want to get married here – apply for a marriage visa but do make sure you will be in the UK when it comes to giving notice as you’ll have to do that in person;
Provide proof of your address and of any name changes;
If you’ve been married or in a civil partnership before, bring your decree absolute or your former partner’s death certificate.
If you are a member of the US Armed Forced serving in the UK – you can get legally married in the US while being based in the UK by double proxy and then exchange your vows in a scenic location here. It sounds a little strange but it can work out beautifully!
When is the best time and season to elope in Wales?
To find out the best time or season for you to elope in Wales – we definitely need to talk about the weather! Famous (or should I say infamous?) for changing its mind in the blink of an eye! Thanks to being so close to the Atlantic, the weather here is pretty mild, but super unpredictable. Throw in the mountains of Snowdonia and you’ve got a recipe for rapid changes in temperature and, yep, lots of rain! Basically, what this means for you and your elopement? Expect a bit of everything!
Wales is known for its rain—especially in the north and west where those mountains seem to invite the clouds in for a heavy, sideways downpour. But hey, don’t let that get you down! Some of my most epic elopement shots have been taken when the rain is pelting down and the wind is howling. It adds a dramatic flair to your photos that sunshine just can’t compete with. And while we can’t control the weather, a little planning goes a long way. With a backup plan and some waterproof gear, you’ll be embracing those raindrops like a pro. If you’re worried about it, check out my post on ‘5 top tips for making the most of your elopement in the rain’ – I promise, the memories will be priceless!
As for the wind? It’s a whole vibe! Those Atlantic breezes might sweep in fast, but honestly, wind brings a sense of movement and romance to your photos—think flowing dresses, hair tousled just right, and that windswept, wild look that feels straight out of a movie. Trust me, you’ll love the way it adds a little extra magic to your day.
And the whole “four seasons in a day” thing? Yep, it’s pretty accurate! One minute you’ll be basking in sunshine, and the next it’s misty and moody with a hint of rain. The key is to be ready for anything – especially if we’re heading into the mountains or keeping things outdoors. But honestly, that’s all part of the adventure, right? Let’s embrace whatever Mother Nature throws our way – it’ll make your elopement day even more unforgettable!
Each time of year comes with its own unique charm and considerations for your elopement and there’s no right or wrong time, it just depends on your personal preference.
Spring (March to May)
Spring is a fantastic time to elope in Wales – mild weather, blooming landscapes and the valleys and hills come alive with vibrant colors and flowers like daffodils, bluebells, and wild garlic for a magical and romantic backdrop for your ceremony.
Summer (June to August)
In summer the weather is at its warmest and we have long daylight hours that provide ample time for exploring, hiking, and enjoying outdoor celebrations (sometimes even in the sun…). This is also peak tourist season though, so expect popular spots like Eryri (Snowdonia National Park) and Pembrokeshire Coast to be busier.
Autumn (September to November)
Autumn in Wales is nothing short of breathtaking. Rich hues of red, orange, and gold, providing a stunning, warm backdrop for an intimate elopement. The weather remains relatively mild early in the season, and there is a magical feeling in the air as the days grow shorter and the nights crisper. For your photographs – this is the best time for beautiful, soft and warm tones.
Winter (December to February)
Best for those dreaming of a cosy, romantic elopement – just imagine yourself exchanging vows in front of a roaring fire in a historic castle or walking hand-in-hand through a snow-dusted forest. The quiet and stillness of winter create an intimate and memorable atmosphere although the weather in winter can, of course, often be quite cold & wet with the occasional snowfall (we can dream, right?).
For more in-depth information, head over to my post on seasonal changes and the best times for you to elope in Wales.
Is eloping cheaper than getting married? Let me break down the costs for you.
Considering that the average cost of a wedding in the UK has now topped £19,000 (excluding ring and honeymoon) – eloping could definitely save you money!
The cost of an elopement in Wales can vary widely depending on your choice of location, accommodation, the services of your elopement photographer, any activities or experiences you plan, and other personal preferences. Here’s a basic breakdown of potential costs:
Legal and Administrative Costs: This includes the fees for giving notice of your intention to marry and the cost of the marriage license. In the UK, prices for getting married at a registry office start from £120 but costs do vary so do check. A church elopement starts from £500 (and does involve multiple visits to the church before your elopement day which is often just not practical) and elopement packages with a celebrant in the UK (not legal) are available from around £650.
Ceremony Location and Registrar Fees: If you’re using a specific venue for your ceremony or hiring a registrar, this can range from £46 for a simple service at the registry office to £86 for a service at a licensed ceremony venue.
Elopement Photography: Is probably going to be one of the more significant expenses. Prices vary greatly depending on the photographer’s experience and involvement and the length of time they’re required. For a full day with an elopement photographer based in Wales, rates could be close to a couple of thousands of pounds as you’re paying for their local knowledge – they know all the best and/or secret spots in the area, can advise on the best time of year to go, when to get the best lighting, and also recommend local accommodation and suppliers, help with timelines and generally ensure you have the best day. Many also offer shorter packages during the week.
Accommodation: Again, depending on where you’d like to stay (a luxury hotel, a quaint B&B, or a cosy log cabin in the woods), costs can vary widely. Wales offers a range of options, with prices per night ranging from under a hundred to several hundred pounds.
Your outfits. The cost of wedding outfits varies greatly depending on your choices. Some couples opt for traditional wedding outfits, while others prefer something more casual. There are real bargains to be found on online shopping sites like Etsy, Ebay or BridalReloved, especially for those looking for vintage or second-hand wedding outfits. If your budget is a higher, you could also check out modern, sustainable wedding dresses at Rolling in Roses or Needle & Thread.
Travel and Transportation: If you’re travelling to Wales from anywhere in the UK you will also need to account for fuel or train costs. The nearest airports are Manchester and Liverpool with a charter option to Caernarfon Airport if you’re coming from abroad.
Food and Dining: Whether you choose a special meal at a Michelin-starred restaurant like Sheeps & Leeks or something more casual like a pizza take-away, dining costs will vary according to your preferences.
Extra Activities: If you plan additional activities like a trip to ZipWorld, a guided tour, a private picnic, or adventure sports, this will also add to your costs. But so much fun!
The pretty bits: you may also want rings, flowers, and a cake.
Considering these options, a basic elopement in Wales could potentially start costing a few thousand pounds, while a more elaborate arrangement with luxury accommodation, full-day (or multiple days) photography, and additional activities could run significantly higher. The choice is yours.
It’s important to research and plan according to your budget and preferences. Many couples find that elopements can be more cost-effective compared to traditional weddings, especially if they keep it simple and focus on what’s most important to them. You can do a deep-dive into this subject by reading my post on real elopement costs in 2024 next.
What is the best location for an elopement in Wales?
Wales is famous for its rugged coastlines and awe-inspiring National Parks and it’s a pretty cool country to live in or visit. We have some of the most beautiful beaches in the world (not to mention the 3rd best beach bar!) and the country is friendly, with distinctive traditions, heritage, and culture. We like a good sing song and myths and legends and Snowdonia’s rustic charm makes it the perfect destination elopement location for couples travelling here from the US, Australia, Asia or the EU. Wales is absolutely bursting with stunning landscapes, from jaw-dropping coastal views to historic castles and lush national parks – we’ve got it all. Pick a spot that feels like you – whether that’s a secluded beach, an enchanted forest, or a picturesque mountain top. Maybe it’s a place that brings back fun memories (like those rainy but unforgettable camping trips with your family!) and suits your vibe, so you can fully soak in every magical moment without feeling exhausted or surrounded by a crowd of tourists. Trust me, this is where a local photographer is worth their weight in gold – they know all the hidden gems and can lead you to breathtaking spots far away from the usual tourist traps. Just keep in mind that some of the dreamiest locations might be a bit off the beaten path and could require a bit of a hike. But hey, that’s all part of the adventure, right? For some of the most popular locations head to my 2024 Guide of the best places to elope in Wales.
For those of you dreaming of getting married just with your kid(s) and/or dog(s) (or both) – I’ve also written some more in-depth guides for choosing the right location if you elope with your dog(s) or wondering how to include your kid(s) in your wedding day in Wales.
Some of the most scenic & popular elopement spots in North Wales
Yr Wyddfa | Snowdon: For adventurous couples, eloping on the summit of Yr Wyddfa | Snowdon can be a breathtaking experience. The highest peak in Wales offers panoramic views across most of this breathtakingly stunning National Park. There are various routes to the summit, catering to different levels of hiking experience. Things on Snowdon can get crazily busy, especially during the summer so this is perhaps not the best choice for those seeking solitude or an isolated spot to exchange their vows privately.
Betws-y-Coed: Known as the gateway to Snowdonia and surrounded by some of the most dramatic and stunning landscapes in Wales. You’ll have easy access to lush forests, mountain views, waterfalls, and rivers—perfect for couples who want that blend of adventure and romantic serenity. Imagine exchanging vows with towering mountains or a cascading waterfall in the background!
Cwm Idwal: Cwm Idwal sits within the stunning Eryri (Snowdonia) National Park, and the views are nothing short of epic. With rugged mountains towering over a tranquil lake (Llyn Idwal), the scenery here is dramatic and perfect for couples looking for that jaw-dropping natural backdrop. It feels otherworldly, almost like you’ve stepped into a fantasy, which makes it ideal for couples who want something extraordinary for their elopement day.
Newborough Beach: Perfect for couples looking for a mix of adventure and serenity. Right next to the beach, you’ve got Newborough Forest, which adds a magical woodland element to your day – just picture yourselves going on a romantic stroll through the forest or finding a quiet spot for some beautiful photos. And, if you’re up for a bit of exploring, Ynys Llanddwyn Island is just a short walk away, with its enchanting lighthouse and ancient ruins that add a touch of history and mystique to your elopement. Do beware though that dog restrictions apply to some sections of the beach during summer.
Cadair Idris: Standing at over 2,900 feet, Cadair Idris offers some of the most breathtaking mountain views in Wales. The rugged peaks, dramatic cliffs, and sweeping valleys make for a truly jaw-dropping backdrop, perfect for couples who want their elopement to feel wild and epic. Imagine saying your vows at the summit, with the world stretching out beneath you – it’s the kind of moment you’ll definitely remember forever!
Portmeirion: Portmeirion looks like something straight out of a fairytale! This picturesque village, with its colorful Italianate architecture, gives you the feeling of being in a Mediterranean wonderland right in the heart of Wales. Every corner of this place is bursting with charm, with vibrant buildings, hidden pathways, and whimsical statues making for a dreamy elopement setting.
Don’t have a favourite spot or not entirely sure where to start planning a UK elopement wedding or micro wedding in Wales?
Don’t worry, I’ve got you! Head to my post on The best places to elope in Wales and my Ultimate Snowdonia Elopement Guide next and let’s get planning!
What’s the difference between a legal elopement and a non-legal symbolic ceremony in Wales?
One of the first things you’ll need to decide is whether you want to go the legal route for your elopement or opt for a non-legal ceremony. Both options are equally magical, and it really only comes down to what feels right for you as a couple (or your budget).
If you’re leaning toward a legal elopement, you’ll need to have your ceremony at a registry office or an approved venue. This means you get to make it official in the eyes of the law, which is perfect if you want all the paperwork done and dusted on the day. Don’t worry – you can still make it intimate, personal, and totally you! If your hearts are set on an epic adventure and a bit of flexibility, why not consider a legal ceremony early in the day followed by an adventure out in the wild? This is where you get to have the best of both worlds and a completely personalised experience. You don’t actually have to exchange rings for your ceremony to become legal and so you could save it for exchanging vows on a mountain peak, beside a shimmering lake, or on a sandy beach once the legal bit’s done. The best part? It’s all about your love and the incredible scenery—no rules, no restrictions, just the two of you sharing this beautiful moment, and all legal!
For couples who choose a non-legal symbolic ceremony (often with the help of a celebrant or humanist), you can also do the legal part either before, on the same day or even after your adventure wedding in Wales, back home or at a local registry office. That way, you get a personalized, unforgettable ceremony in a place that speaks to your soul, and the official part taken care of without any fuss.
So, what’s it going to be? The official elopement with all the paperwork in a licensed location immediately followed by a wild & romantic adventure (during which you can exchange your rings & vows) surrounded by the stunning beauty of Wales? Or a symbolic ceremony? Whatever you choose, just make sure it’s what feels right for you as a couple. This is your day, your love story, and your adventure—make it exactly what you’ve always dreamed of!
By the way; did you know that if you’re hoping to include a handfasting element on your wedding day – you can actually do so with an official registrar during a legal wedding ceremony? Yep.
What options do we have in terms of venues in Wales for a legal elopement ceremony?
Right now, you can say your private vows and exchange rings pretty much anywhere you want in Wales – whether it’s a dreamy beach, a misty mountain, an enchanted forest, or a breathtaking waterfall. The catch? You still can’t get legally married in those spots. We were all hoping the outdated Marriage Act (yep, it’s from 1949!) would get an update post-pandemic to allow couples more freedom with where they can legally tie the knot. But sadly, that hasn’t happened yet.
So, what does that mean for you? You’ve got two options if you want a legal elopement in Wales. First, there’s the classic registry office ceremony in Dolgellau, Llandudno or Caernarfon – and let me tell you, they’re way cooler than they used to be (seriously, register office weddings in 2024 are pretty awesome!). Or, if you’ve got a bit more in your budget, you can go for a ceremony at a gorgeous venue that’s specifically licensed for weddings. Need a little inspiration? Here are some stunning spots to consider!
Llyn Gwynant: The barn at Llyn Gwynant is the ultimate dreamy spot for a laid-back mid-week elopement, right in the heart of Eryri (Snowdonia). With stunning, peaceful views of the dramatic mountain ranges, it’s perfect for couples who want that wow-factor without the fuss. This venue oozes rustic charm, and if you’re into the idea of a wedding with a camping vibe, you’ve found your spot! It’s got everything you need for an unforgettable, relaxed celebration surrounded by nature.
Penarth Fawr: Imagine saying your vows at a gorgeous historic house on the stunning Llŷn Peninsula, just a stone’s throw from the Ty Coch Inn in Porthdinllaen – officially the best beach pub in Wales (and ranked 3rd best in the world!). You can stay in a super romantic shepherd’s hut right next to your ceremony spot, soaking up all the peace and tranquility this beautiful area has to offer. I’ve already helped lots of couples plan their magical elopements here, often followed by an epic coastal adventure to capture those unforgettable photos. It’s perfect for wild coastal vibes and couples who want to elope without the need for witnesses. Sounds dreamy, right?
Tŷ Afon River House: Completely surrounded by nature, this charming 18th-century house sits in the heart of Eryri | Snowdonia National Park, and it’s pretty much the perfect spot for a magical elopement in Wales. Tŷ Afon is a cozy Welsh guesthouse with a mountain-side wooded area that feels straight out of a fairy tale. Nestled in a land full of myths and legends, it’s just a short stroll from the village of Beddgelert, famous for its folklore and incredible hiking trails. If you’re dreaming of waking up to breathtaking mountain views and want serenity mixed with a dash of adventure, this is the place to plan your elopement!
Gwydir Castle: If you’re after something totally unique and filled with character, elope to a real castle! As one of the most romantic historic buildings in all of Wales, it’s full of charm and history and feels like you’re stepping into a real-life fairytale. Set in the heart of the lush Welsh countryside, right at the foothills of Eryri (Snowdonia), the views are nothing short of magical. Imagine saying your vows in front of a roaring fire! It’s the kind of place where every corner feels like a scene from a love story, and your wedding day will be one for the books! Perfect for couples who want something timeless, intimate, and über romantic.
Do we need to book an elopement photographer based in Wales?
Such a biggie!
When picking your elopement photographer, it’s so important to find someone experienced who can handle anything that comes their way – especially when the weather doesn’t play nice or changes in the blink of an eye. You need someone who’s not just a wizard behind the camera but also a rock you can fully rely on to stay calm, professional, and flexible, to make sure you have the once-in-a-lifetime experience you envisaged, no matter what happens on the day!
A great elopement photographer knows when to change timings and/or location(s) to keep you feeling safe, relaxed, and ready to soak up every moment of your once-in-a-lifetime wedding day. They should have the technical skills to capture breathtaking photos, rain or shine (obviously), but they also need the confidence to navigate any last-minute curveballs while keeping the mood light and positive. They also need to know the area really well and must be able to help you with all things elopement – like how to plan one for instance (go figure;)
I’d book a local Wales Elopement Photographer and other local suppliers – it supports local businesses and you can rest assured you’re getting someone who’s super passionate about their small business in Wales and knows all the hidden gems to give you a once-of-a-lifetime experience.
What elements can we include in the elopement ceremony?
Your elopement ceremony can be as unique and personal as you want, so why not go all out and make it truly unforgettable? Imagine exchanging heartfelt, personal vows where you get to express all those deep feelings and promises – it’s the perfect way to make your ceremony feel 100% you. Whether you’re into traditional rings or something a bit more special like custom designs or engraved bands with secret messages, the ring exchange becomes so much more intimate in an elopement setting.
Want to add even more meaning? How about a ring warming? If you have a few close friends or family with you, pass the rings around and let everyone hold them for a moment, sending their love and good vibes before you exchange them. It’s a beautiful way to involve your loved ones in the ceremony!
Fancy a special reading or poem? This is the perfect moment to include words that really resonate with your relationship. It could be a passage from a favorite book, a line from a movie, or even a song lyric that speaks to your love. If you have guests, let them get involved by reading something meaningful to you both.
Looking for something a little extra? A unity ceremony is such a sweet way to represent your bond. You could light a candle together, mix sand from two different places, or even create something totally unique that reflects your personalities. Want a bit of tradition with a twist? A handfasting ceremony is a beautiful Celtic ritual where your hands are tied together with a ribbon or cord, symbolizing the joining of your lives – how romantic is that?! Also note that as of August 2024 you can also ask your registrar to include handfasting into your legal ceremony.
And don’t forget to take a moment to breathe it all in. Whether you’re standing by a lake, on a mountain, or in a lush forest, adding a moment of reflection allows you both to soak up the magic of the day and the beauty of your surroundings.
Music is another fun way to set the mood. Play your favorite songs on a portable speaker, create a personal playlist, or even hire a local musician for a serenade, the right music adds that extra layer of emotion.
Want to surprise each other? Write secret love letters beforehand and read them out loud during the ceremony—it’s a guaranteed tear-jerker moment! And if you’re the adventurous type, why not make your ceremony part of a bigger adventure? Hike to a mountaintop, say your vows beside a waterfall, or exchange rings on a quiet beach. Let nature be the backdrop to your love story, and create memories you’ll cherish forever.
If you’ve invited close family or friends, get them involved in the ceremony, whether that’s through a little speech, a reading, or simply cheering you on! And for something truly personal, you can incorporate your cultural or spiritual traditions. Whether it’s a blessing, a prayer, or a tradition from your heritage, weaving these elements into your elopement adds even more meaning to the day.
The beauty of an elopement is that it’s all about you. Whether you’re going for a traditional feel or something completely unique, your ceremony can be crafted to reflect your love, your story, and your vision for the perfect day. So go ahead, get creative, and make it the most magical experience of your lives.
What type of accommodation should we book for our elopement in Wales?
Imagine this: you and your partner tucked away in a dreamy log cabin or shepherd’s hut, surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Eryri | Snowdonia. With features like outdoor fire pits for roasting marshmallows (and then burning your mouths), panoramic windows for soaking in the views, and private hiking trails right outside your door, your elopement instantly transforms into a thrilling adventure you’ll never forget.
There’s something magical about the novelty of escaping to a cosy cabin or hut for your special day, and never more so than on your actual wedding day! You’re not just getting married – you’re having the best wedding experience! Just imagine yourselves waking up to the gentle melody of birdsong or the sight of mist drifting over the mountains. It’s the perfect blend of adventure and romance for a day that feels as exhilarating as it is intimate.
And when the day is done, you’re not heading back to a regular hotel room. Nope, you’re spending your wedding night in a charming cabin, cosied up with hot chocolate by a crackling fire, or maybe even unwinding in a hot tub under a blanket of stars. This isn’t just a place to stay – it’s a setting straight out of a fairy tale, turning your elopement into a magical once-in-a-lifetime experience.
What do couples wear if they elope?
Choosing the right outfit for your elopement in Wales is key to ensuring you feel comfortable, look fabulous, and stay prepared for whatever nature (and the infamously temperamental Welsh weather) throws your way.
Your choice of dress or suit should not only reflect your personal style but also be suitable for the natural setting of Eryri | Snowdonia. For dresses, consider flowing fabrics like chiffon, and tulle; they move beautifully in the wind and won’t restrict your movement. A dress with long sleeves or a detachable overlay can add warmth without sacrificing style.
For suits, opt for breathable fabrics like wool or tweed; they provide warmth and are well-suited to the outdoor setting. A well-fitted suit with a touch of rugged elegance—think earthy tones or subtle patterns—can look fantastic against Snowdonia’s natural backdrop.
Given the unpredictable Welsh weather, it’s always a good idea to pack a backup outfit or a change of clothes (we never leave the house without a spare set of warm clothes in the van because as far as I’m concerned there’s always a 50/50% chance we’ll get caught out in the rain). This way, if you do get caught in an unexpected downpour or decide to take a celebratory dip in a freezing lake somewhere, you have a dry outfit ready to go. There’s something quite smug about knowing no matter what the weather – you are going to drive home dry & warm.
One of the key elements most couples tend to agree on when it comes to eloping is that even though their wedding day may be less formal – they still want to look special! If you are combining a legal ceremony with an afternoon adventure you will need to find a compromise between formality and function. Pinterest makes walking up mountains in heels or sandals (great for beach elopements though!) look easy and fun – things can go wrong in an instant though and you don’t want to ruin your day (or weekend at worst!) just because you chose the wrong outfit and/or footwear.
You can find more detailed information in my post on Elopement dresses – how to pick one that’s perfect for you; here’s a short summary:
* If you’re hoping to go on a bit of a hike on your elopement day in Wales – go for adequate foot wear. Walking boots should be super comfy (make sure you wear them in and don’t be tempted to wear them for the first time on your elopement day – it’ll hurt!) and give you a bit of support in rough’ish terrain.
* If you need to carry car keys, mobile phones, food items, extra layers etc – put them in a great looking backpack or rucksack and not in a tatty plastic bag. Looks so much better on pictures :)
* Pick a wedding dress that let’s you move around quite freely and doesn’t fully restrict your arms – you want to feel comfortable walking and even HUG your partner which is difficult if your dress looks ace but doesn’t let you move around.
* Veils add a different dimension. Especially if it’s windy. Which happens often in Wales…. Make sure you practise reattaching it easily just in case it comes off.
* Suits. Are suits. They’re usually pretty restrictive so try and put together a suit look that’s comfy & a bit stylish – corduroy is a pretty classic looking material that’s pretty flexible.
Above all – wear something you like that makes you feel good about yourself!
Can family members come to elopements?
Love the idea of eloping but want to include your family? Who says you can’t?! Once upon a time, elopements were all about just the two of you, but times have totally changed. More and more couples are choosing to elope with their nearest and dearest by their side, and it’s all about what feels right for you. There’s no hard and fast rule about how many guests you can bring along—up to 10 guests is generally considered an elopement, up to 20 a micro wedding, and up to 30 a small elopement wedding. A true elopement in Wales can just be the two of you (how romantic!), but bringing along your loved ones can make it even more special.
If you’re thinking of inviting family or friends, here’s my top tip: keeping your guest list small (10 or fewer) gives you so much more flexibility and freedom to plan the perfect day, minus the stress of trying to manage a crowd. With a smaller group, it’s easier to access those hidden, beautiful elopement spots that Wales is famous for, and it keeps things intimate and focused on you two. Plus, a smaller guest list means a smaller carbon footprint – bonus! So, whether you’re dreaming of an elopement with just the two of you or with a few of your favorite people, the magic is all in how you make it your own.
Some other bits & bobs you might want to think about if you’re considering an elopement in Wales
Transport: Think about how you’ll get to and from your elopement location, especially if it’s in a remote area and you’d like to go on an epic adventure after your ceremony where public transport is not an easy option.
Food: Bring snacks on the day, especially if you’re planning to be somewhere remote – there’s not always a shop around. Think about what and where to eat – booking a private dining experience or a table at a good restaurant can be a lovely way to celebrate but bear in mind that, unlike in London, restaurants in Wales are not open every day or 24/7 so you do need to do your research.
Witnesses: If your ceremony is legal, you’ll need at least two witnesses. I’ve been a witness quite a few times – it’s always such an honour! Can also help you find your second witness if you’re eloping without any friends and family.
Budget: Figure out how much you want to spend on each part of your elopement and then budget your funds accordingly. If you’re the organised type (I see you, spreadsheet lovers), make some checklists and timelines to keep everything on track so you’re all set and ready to go for your special day. If you need more info where most of your money will go, read my post on how much does an elopement cost in Wales next.
By keeping these things in mind and planning with care, you can have a gorgeous, totally stress-free elopement right here in Wales. And don’t forget—the secret to a truly beautiful and meaningful elopement is making sure every detail reflects who you are as a couple, your unique love story, and what matters most to you. This is your day, so let your personalities shine through!
Why you should elope to Wales
Eloping has been around since at least the Middle Ages. Back in the day, it meant running off to get married in secret, often without the family’s blessing, and so it’s always been about adventure and doing things your own way. But the idea of eloping has totally evolved over time and so these days – especially after we’ve all had a chance to hit pause and rethink what really matters to us – elopements are fast becoming the go-to choice for couples who love to travel and don’t want to blow their savings on a huge, traditional wedding that – let’s face it – is more about pleasing others than celebrating your love.
Couples are now choosing to elope for all the right reasons: simplicity, intimacy, and focusing solely on their connection. It’s not about running away from societal norms anymore – it’s about making a personal choice so that you can have a private, unique, and wholesome wedding experience. Maybe you’re just not into the whole big family gathering thing because some family dynamics are just a bit too complicated. Or perhaps the idea of being the centre of attention makes you break out in hives. So why not spend your money on an epic adventure or put it towards your first home instead? If a big traditional wedding just isn’t your style, and you’d rather do things your way – your wedding, your rules – I’m here to help you plan a small, meaningful wedding or micro wedding in Wales, so you can celebrate your love exactly how you want and that, my friends, is exactly why you should elope to Wales!
One more thing – elopements are often also called Just Us Wedding Packages in the UK
‘Just Us’ wedding packages are designed for couples who wish to have a small, intimate wedding, often with just the couple themselves or with a very limited number of guests. These packages are becoming increasingly popular for their simplicity, intimacy, and focus on the couple’s experience. Often offered by smaller wedding venues with accommodation on site, these packages typically include a scenic location for the ceremony, often in picturesque settings like a country house, hotel, or a unique outdoor location. Many packages include a stay at the venue or nearby accommodations, ranging from a single night to a longer honeymoon-style stay. There’s often an officiant included in the package to conduct the ceremony, and sometimes a bouquet and a button hole. Some packages also offer a choice of ceremony locations within the venue.
Just Us wedding packages are tailored for simplicity and ease, making them ideal for elopements or small, low-key weddings.
As a wedding and elopement photographer based in Wales, I know some of the best backdrops for gorgeous wedding photographs and have helped lots of couples just like you already – I’m absolutely passionate about helping couples plan a super scenic elopement, romantic micro wedding in Wales, or a small and intimate wedding in Snowdonia. Wales is also a dream destination for vow renewals or proposals and I’ll happily help you find a totally dreamy location to have the best day.
If you don’t really know where to start – here are my top tips on how to elope anywhere in the UK.
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Serious about planning an elopement in Snowdonia or planning a simple wedding quickly anywhere in the UK and would like a local photographer/planner involved – I’m happy to help!
There’s a lot to take in here, so no rush. But whenever you’re ready to start planning – send me a message! I’d love to help you figure out all the details, guide you through the steps and get excited with you along the way. I absolutely believe that an elopement in Wales is just the most romantic, magical, intimate, meaningful and wholesome way to get married and I’m so excited that you’re thinking of going all-in!
Babs xox
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